Of Chivalry

We live in a country where women have made huge advances in gender equality. They can run our country successfully, earn as much income as they want and so on. However, I can’t help but wonder if one of the prices paid is the decline of chivalry and respect - from man to woman.Given that I don’t tend to spend my weekends clad in armour and wielding a sword, I found a broad definition of modern-day chivalry here.I have had a number of conversations in recent weeks with a number of women around this subject. Broadly speaking, I ask questions along the lines of “What would you look your man to do for you that he doesn’t?” or “What does your man do that you love?”.My main motivation in finding this out is that it is a necessary part of my learning. I want to know what I can do, or do better, when it comes to wooing.A short list of some of the things appreciated by the women I talked to:- Opening the car door- Opening the taxi door, then going around to the other side so she doesn’t have to shuffle across in her dress and heels.- Opening doors and letting her through first- Walking on her outside (streetside - this one is historical: horses, mud etc.)- Carrying her bags and packages when shopping- Taking her jacket, seating her at the table- Ordering her food for her (after discussion of course!)Of absolute importance is that any act of chivalry cannot be forced. It needs to come from the heart.I’ve tried and tested the above and it totally works. And it’s actually really fun to do. If anything it does remove a degree of nervousness as you are thinking about her and not yourself and your insecurities.Ladies - what other things can you add? Suggestions? Things to try? What do you love? What do you dislike?Guys - my challenge to you! Try being more chivalrous if you are currently not. The responses I’ve gotten are quite remarkable and make it very much worthwhile. Lets bring chivalry back into fashion!Good luck!Simon.